BRENT STOLLER

Writer. Advice giver. Peanut butter and chocolate enthusiast.

We Teach What We Need to Learn

A wise woman (OK, it was my mother, a therapist) just told me:

We teach what we need to learn.

Well, it’s time for me to look in the mirror.

Get Into Gratitude — Part 2

Last week at this time, I was in the same position I’m in right now:

Staring at a blank screen, unsure of what to write, not really wanting to write anything.

Change Your Outlook With This Simple Fix

Words have power. We understand this when we’re talking to others.

But too often we forget this when we’re talking to ourselves.

Why Aren’t My Sibling and I Friends?

The arc of the sibling relationship is divided into two segments:

Childhood and adulthood.

What starts as an arranged marriage often blossoms into a lasting friendship. But there are no guarantees.

Please Wait Your Turn

Everywhere you look, everyone’s moving at warp speed. On the road, in the office, even on the golf course.

But where this drives me nuts is when it’s time to get off an airplane.