BRENT STOLLER

Writer. Advice giver. Peanut butter and chocolate enthusiast.

Advice for the Modern Man: Red Flags or Cold Feet?

Red flags or cold feet

The engagement is an odd transition period. For however long, the relationship’s underlying question has been, “Are we going to get married?”

But once someone gets on one knee, it shifts to the in-your-face-reality of, “We’re going to be married.”

And that can play with a person’s psyche.